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The ‘Me Too’ backlash

The Global Dating Crisis: episode 2

video    The Guardian    1 May 2026

 

In the US,

60% of young men are single and sex is at a record low.

 

Despite endless opportunities to meet the right person,

it feels like dating in the US has become more fraught than ever.

 

As political divides deepen and the #MeToo backlash grows,

we meet the people navigating ‘heterofatalism’

and those ditching modern dating for 1950s values.

 

From the unlimited choice of NYC dating apps

to a Christian retreat in the south,

reporter Carter Sherman explores a nation struggling to connect.

 

YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HfwQvfchMXU

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Has the manosphere ruined dating?

The Global Dating Crisis: episode 1

The Guardian    21 April 2026

 

 

 

 

Has the manosphere ruined dating?

The Global Dating Crisis: episode 1

video    The Guardian    21 April 2026

 

Globally, the number of single people is on the rise.

 

Rates of marriage and cohabitation are on the decline,

and in some countries, even sex itself is down.

 

In this new series

we're on a journey around the world to find out

why people seem to be coupling up less,

and what could be causing this dating crisis.

 

In this episode, we’re in the UK

 

YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfEHQH1RSr0

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

manosphere        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/video/2026/apr/21/
how-the-manosphere-ruined-dating-
the-global-dating-crisis-episode-1

 

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2026/apr/08/
the-growing-influence-of-the-manosphere-in-schools-
and-what-to-do-about-it

 

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/mar/11/
manosphere-influ

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2026/apr/01/
the-manosphere-is-dead-and-no-one-cares-about-andrew-tate-any-more-
the-poet-taking-on-toxic-masculinity

 

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/mar/08/
pete-hegseth-pentagon-trump-iran

 

https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2026/mar/07/
louis-theroux-interview-inside-the-manosphere-2026-documentary

 

 

 

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/dec/29/
from-adolescence-to-the-manosphere-
has-2025-been-the-year-of-the-boy

 

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/nov/02/
teenage-radicalised-manosphere-young-men-masculinity

 

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/ng-interactive/2025/oct/21/
why-the-manosphere-clicked-for-young-men-a-visual-deep-dive

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/jun/25/
the-online-manosphere-poses-a-real-threat-to-society

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/jun/13/
study-manosphere-ofcom

 

https://www.theguardian.com/music/2025/jun/07/
manosphere-diddy-trial

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/apr/19/
there-were-no-warning-signs-
what-happens-when-your-partner-falls-into-the-manosphere

 

https://www.theguardian.com/media/2025/mar/19/
beyond-andrew-tate-the-imitators-who-help-promote-misogyny-online

 

https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2025/mar/18/
adolescence-writer-jack-thorne-incel-culture-netflix

 

 

 

 

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2024/nov/07/
joe-rogan-elon-musk-heterodoxy-trump-win-reaction

 

 

 

 

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/dec/13/
online-dating-wandering-into-the-manosphere

 

 

 

 

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/jul/31/
backlash-against-feminism-manosphere-women

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

manosphere        USA

 

https://www.npr.org/2026/04/03/
nx-s1-5770199/mogging-rooted-in-the-manosphere-found-new-life-as-a-joke

 

 

 

 

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/12/10/
us/andrew-tate-barron-trump-romania.html

 

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/03/28/
opinion/manosphere-online-boys-parents.html

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Black manosphere        USA

 

https://www.npr.org/2024/10/30/
1210938547/code-switch-black-manosphere

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

mogging        USA

 

https://www.npr.org/2026/04/03/
nx-s1-5770199/mogging-rooted-in-the-manosphere-
found-new-life-as-a-joke

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Andrew Tate BBC interview:

Influencer challenged on misogyny and rape allegations

BBC News    1 June 2023

 

 

 

 

Andrew Tate BBC interview:

Influencer challenged on misogyny and rape allegations

video    BBC News    1 June 2023

 

Controversial influencer Andrew Tate has denied

fuelling a culture of misogyny

and defended his reputation in a combative interview with the BBC.

 

When the BBC put a range of allegations to him

- including specific accusations of rape, human trafficking and exploiting women,

for which he is being investigated by Romanian prosecutors - he dismissed them.

 

This was Mr Tate's first television interview with a major broadcaster

since being released into house arrest from police custody in Romania in April.

 

He agreed to the interview with no set conditions.

 

YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-JBhQqqWHY

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

UK / USA > Andrew Tate        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/news/
andrew-tate

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/
Andrew_Tate

 

 

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2026/may/05/
andrew-tate-sought-cps-assurance-he-would-not-be-arrested-
if-he-returned-to-uk-court-hears

 

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2026/mar/26/
hertfordshire-police-to-reinvestigate-andrew-tate-sexual-abuse-claims

 

https://www.theguardian.com/news/2026/mar/25/
watchdog-investigating-how-police-handled-andrew-tate-sexual-abuse-claims

 

https://www.theguardian.com/news/2025/sep/24/
women-allegedly-abused-by-andrew-tate-decry-misleading-spectator-article

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

masculinity        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/stage/2026/jan/29/
american-psycho-musical-almeida-theatre-london-brett-easton-ellis-
matt-smith-christian-bale

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

toxic masculinity        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/music/2026/may/28/
loss-of-manual-jobs-could-be-driving-toxic-masculinity-
says-sting

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2026/apr/01/
the-manosphere-is-dead-and-no-one-cares-about-andrew-tate-any-more-
the-poet-taking-on-toxic-masculinity

 

https://www.theguardian.com/news/audio/2023/jan/05/
the-arrest-of-andrew-tate-the-king-of-toxic-masculinity-
podcast

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

manspread        USA

 

https://www.npr.org/2024/12/04/
g-s1-36686/microfeminism-ashley-chaney-sexism

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

manspreading        USA

 

https://www.nytimes.com/2014/12/21/
nyregion/a-scourge-is-spreading-mtas-cure-dude-close-your-legs.html

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ln97oo1PQN8

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

manspreaders        USA

 

https://www.nytimes.com/2014/12/21/
nyregion/
a-scourge-is-spreading-mtas-cure-dude-close-your-legs.html

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

macho > macho political system        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2006/oct/05/
comment.women 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

males        UK

 

http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2012/may/13/
men-victims-new-oppression

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

male chauvinism        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2006/oct/05/
comment.women 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

alpha male        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2003/sep/22/
gender.uk

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

machismo        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2013/may/14/
male-identity-crisis-machismo-abbott

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

machismo        UK

 

https://www.nytimes.com/2022/06/18/
us/firearm-gun-sales.htmlc

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

chasing women        USA

 

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/12/18/
us/jeffrey-epstein-donald-trump.html

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

misogyny        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/membership/2026/may/20/
we-cant-talk-about-press-freedom-without-talking-about-misogyny

 

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/feb/23/
15-year-old-girl-misogyny-social-media-online-abuse

 

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/dec/18/
schools-england-rise-misogyny-towards-teachers-jess-phillips

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/jun/10/
the-misogyny-of-the-metaverse-
is-mark-zuckerbergs-dream-world-a-no-go-area-for-women

 

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2025/apr/19/
teachers-warn-rise-misogyny-racism-uk-schools

 

https://www.theguardian.com/media/2025/mar/19/
beyond-andrew-tate-
the-imitators-who-help-promote-misogyny-online

 

 

 

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/feb/02/
andrew-tate-twisted-ideology-infiltrated-british-schools

 

 

 

 

https://www.theguardian.com/news/audio/2021/mar/24/
men-what-can-you-do-to-help-fight-misogyny-
podcast - Guardian podcast

 

 

 

 

http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/aug/07/
misogyny-society-abused-children-predatory

 

http://www.theguardian.com/media/2013/aug/03/
how-to-stop-trolls-social-media

 

 

 

 

http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2010/jul/30/
casual-sexism-misogyny

 

 

 

 

http://www.guardian.co.uk/stage/2009/sep/26/
jo-brand-standup-comedy-autobiography

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

USA > misogyny        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/dec/29/
donald-trump-racism-dei-misogyny-2025-review

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

misogynist        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/news/
andrew-tate

 

 

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2025/mar/29/
incel-accounts-using-self-improvement-language-
to-avoid-tiktok-bans-study

 

https://www.theguardian.com/news/2023/apr/29/
talk-pupils-misogynist-andrew-tate-teachers-schools-england

 

https://www.theguardian.com/news/audio/2023/jan/05/
the-arrest-of-andrew-tate-the-king-of-toxic-masculinity-
podcast - Guardian podcast

 

 

 

 

https://www.theguardian.com/news/audio/2021/aug/19/
plymouth-attack-misogynist-incel-culture-
podcast - Guardian podcast

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

misogynistic        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/jun/13/
study-manosphere-ofcom

 

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/apr/12/
uk-counter-terror-police-nca-misogyny-com-networks

 

 

 

 

https://www.theguardian.com/media/2024/feb/06/
social-media-algorithms-amplifying-misogynistic-content

 

 

 

 

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2022/aug/06/
revealed-
how-tiktok-bombards-young-men-with-misogynistic-videos-andrew-tate

 

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2022/aug/06/
andrew-tate-violent-misogynistic-world-of-tiktok-new-star

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

woman-hater        UK

 

http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2010/jul/30/
casual-sexism-misogyny

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

involuntary celibate / incel ideology        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2025/mar/29/
incel-accounts-using-self-improvement-language-to-avoid-tiktok-bans-
study

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

incel culture        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/stage/2026/jan/29/
american-psycho-musical-almeida-theatre-london-brett-easton-ellis-
matt-smith-christian-bale

 

https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2025/mar/18/
adolescence-writer-jack-thorne-incel-culture-netflix

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

predatory men        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/jun/22/
were-here-to-spot-predatory-men-
the-new-force-patrolling-dua-lipas-wembley-show

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

wolf-whistle        UK

 

https://www.theguardian.com/education/mortarboard/2013/jun/20/
why-i-started-a-feminist-society

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Are We Not Man Enough?

 

December 17, 2011
The New York Times
By STEVE KETTMANN

 

ON Friday, a federal judge in San Francisco sentenced Barry Bonds, Major League Baseball’s career home run leader, to two years of probation and community service. Mr. Bonds’s success in baseball, and his conviction for obstruction of justice earlier this year, both stemmed in part from his use of a testosterone-based balm famously known as “the cream.”

But in the more than eight years since Mr. Bonds was first accused of using performance-enhancing drugs, something strange has happened: millions of men have started to use “the cream,” too — or one of any number of similar treatments to make themselves look and feel younger and stronger.

According to reliable estimates, total testosterone prescriptions have skyrocketed, from 1.75 million in 2002 to 4.5 million last year. The demand, said John Hoberman, author of “Testosterone Dreams,” isn’t limited to would-be pro athletes; it extends to “police officers, bouncers, biker gangs and the ‘anti-aging’ industry that provides legal prescriptions to millions of older males.”

Too often, the Steroid Era in baseball turned into a game of sanctimony and whodunit, distracting from the more important question of why we, as a culture, want our athletes comic-book pumped up and artificially enhanced. And it helped us avoid recognizing that, from Hollywood actors on human growth hormone, to weekend athletes, to men in their 40s or 50s or beyond who just want to feel less blah because of “low T,” we are on the cusp of an Age of Juicing.

It’s as if we’ve all stepped into Jose Canseco’s world. The retired baseball player opened his 2005 book “Juiced,” a No. 1 New York Times best seller (which I ghost wrote), by predicting that the use of steroids and other enhancements by athletes was a precursor to widespread use among the general population.

“I have no doubt whatsoever that intelligent, informed use of steroids, combined with human growth hormone, will one day be so accepted that everybody will be doing it,” Mr. Canseco said. “We will be able to look good and have strong, fit bodies well into our sixties and beyond. It’s called evolution, and there’s no stopping it.”

What’s behind this explosion? A change in medical opinion, for one thing. New research has cast doubt on claims that low-level testosterone supplements pose a health risk for men, specifically regarding links between prostate cancer and high testosterone levels. That opened the door for doctors to start recommending treatments to a wider range of patients, just as it loosened the floodgates for drug companies to start pushing them.

“Over the last five years the market for prescriptions for testosterone products has been one of the biggest growth areas for the pharmaceutical industry,” Abraham Morgentaler, an associate clinical professor of urology at Harvard Medical School and author of “Testosterone for Life,” said in a phone interview.

And, to be fair, there is a medical justification for many of the prescriptions. “There are still millions of men in this country who have symptoms and signs of testosterone deficiency who are not diagnosed or treated and should be,” Dr. Morgentaler said.

But the medical establishment wouldn’t have had much luck had demand not spiked as well. In a way, the juicing scandals in sports served as a perverse advertisement for the drugs’ effectiveness. We saw the home-run totals, we saw the muscles and we saw the guys who looked as if they were having a whale of a good time with their Adonis bodies — until they pushed it too far and started looking ridiculous, like Barry Bonds, whom one insider dubbed “the Michelin Man” for his bulging neck.

The truth is that a big part of steroids’ attraction was always mental. Jason Giambi, an admitted juicer who now plays for the Colorado Rockies, once told me the key to being a big-league hitter was to “feel sexy” up at home plate, and he meant it far more literally than I understood at the time. Extra testosterone does a lot for the body, but it also gives an athlete a feeling of being unstoppable, of having an edge, of feeling, well, sexy. It’s this feeling that many men at home watching “low T” ads during the recent baseball playoffs want for themselves.

It’s not just sports. People laughed when Sylvester Stallone was arrested in Australia in 2007 for trying to transport his personal stash of growth hormone, but its use is reportedly widespread among actors of a certain age looking to keep a youthful appearance.

Of course, millions of men (and women) remain, to say the least, wary of such treatments. Dr. Morgentaler, a self-described testosterone skeptic when he began researching it more than 20 years ago who later became an advocate, believes that the stigma was created unfairly. “People have the idea that stuff is illicit and illegal and dangerous,” he said. “But really the story in sports is that it’s against the rules of whatever game it is.”

He has a point. But I remember interviewing an East German athlete outside a Berlin courtroom in 1999. She was one of many plaintiffs in a case against Manfred Ewald, the former East German sports boss, who had given orders to give underage female athletes large doses of steroids without their knowledge, leading to a wide array of health problems, including giving birth to babies with club feet. “Steroids are a time bomb,” she said. “They are always dangerous. I would tell athletes around the world, ‘Keep yourself off steroids.’ ”

Then again, there’s a difference between sluggers shooting themselves up to reach testosterone levels 50 times above normal — consequences be damned — and low-level supplements that can improve quality of life with a minimum of health risk.

My real worry, though, is cultural. Just as group pressure led ballplayers to juice to keep up with the competition, might not the “low T” mind-set push men to juice up, even if a little slowing down with age might in fact be natural? Dr. Morgentaler told me about men he treated who no longer had that burning drive to run out and sell another client, all because of low testosterone.

But is that so bad? Do we really want to feed a business culture that increasingly elevates cocksure confidence and pushiness above all else, especially if it filters into everyday life?

In an era marked by the dangerous decisions of an entire industry full of gung-ho alpha males, shouldn’t we be wary of a culture that pushes us even further in that direction? Maybe some quiet time for reflection or awareness of the consequences of one’s actions might not be so bad — even if it means a little lower T.

 

Steve Kettmann is a former sportswriter

for The San Francisco Chronicle

and the author of “One Day at Fenway.”

Are We Not Man Enough?,
NYT, 17.12.2011,
https://www.nytimes.com/2011/12/18/
opinion/sunday/are-we-not-man-enough.html

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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